Posture, filters, breathing, clothing, bloating and my one minute transformation
I have rolls, cellulite and insecurities of my own...’𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘵𝘰𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘱 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 “should” 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘢’.
I used to feel confident in these shorts but today I put them on, felt bloated and suffocated as my skin hung over and they so tightly hugged my thighs and emphasized my cellulite.
BUT then I thought 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘧𝘧 𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦?? I remembered seeing a picture of myself in these same shorts the day after I found out I was pregnant with my second. I was little and these shorts were loose but I still felt this way 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐝, 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭? BUT Body image is a 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨. Doesn’t matter 𝘩𝘰𝘸 big or little 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘦, if you 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 or 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐲 (according to somebody else’s view on insecurities...) 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 and views of ourself that even if they may 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦, they ARE valid and they are ok to feel. Your feelings are just that, 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴.
BUT I don’t want to care if I sit at a weird angle that may not be “𝘧𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨” anymore. When my thighs push into a chair and I can see cellulite...𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵??? I don’t want to be the reason my babies look into a mirror and think...”Well, if Mommy thinks she doesn’t look good enough, what about me?”
I want my babies to see 𝐦𝐞 and all that I have fought and OVERCOME to be 𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 and 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 where I am today. So they know, no matter 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦, they can 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘶𝘱 and jump over it.
Next Monday, me and other women from all over will be starting an exclusive VIP program not yet released to the public where we will be showing up 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, LIVE 𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘶𝘴
Each in 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘺 with 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘥𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘦𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭𝘴... but most importantly 𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 and 𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 what our bodies 𝐂𝐀𝐍 do. What our bodies 𝐇𝐀𝐕𝐄 done and where they 𝗪𝐈𝐋𝐋 go. This is your invitation too. You in?