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Secret #2: How I Found Meaning In My Past And Used My Health Journey As A Vehicle To Encourage Others While Getting Paid WITHOUT Being A Fitness Expert.
I LOVE what Tony Robbins says about life happening FOR US, not to us.
What does that even mean, right?
Well, think about it for a second...
Perspective is KEY and depending on your perspective, the story you are telling yourself, THAT identity inevitably DRIVES all your behavior.
"I'm not good enough"
"I could never do what she does"
So you don't, right?
Those are CONDITIONED BELIEFS that you heard or saw throughout your life. Lies you've told yourself or someone has told you. And how you see yourself is then reflective in how you behave. It is why it is so hard for most people to break free of the poverty or toxic generations before them. They've been conditioned to believe this is it for their life.. that life has happened to them, not FOR them.
But what if you shifted your perception on that experience and gave it a NEW meaning? To tell yourself the story of that same experience in a way that would empower you? THAT, could change your life in an instant.
Do you see that?
How making a conscious decision to recognize that the pain that could keep you repeating history as a victim ALSO has the same potential to change everything, making you a victor? Most people are completely oblivious to the power that their thoughts have and while these beliefs may not be their fault they are the VERY thing keeping most stagnant and in despair.
"Your beliefs become your thoughts, which eventually become your actions"
BUT once you are able to recognize this, you allow room to reframe your thinking into a series of empowering beliefs. This is where breakthroughs HAPPEN. This is where ACTION begins and lives change.
"I could try and one day, with enough work- I could be where she is at"
I saw myself not good enough > So I changed how I saw myself > I showcased new empowering statements > And I began to take action
If you want to go places most people can't you HAVE to bridge the gap in the foundation of your mind first. The ONLY limitations we have are the ones we place on OURSELVES.
Tell me, are the things you are telling yourself right now things that you'd tell your child?
Probably not, right? So STOP.
Is it easy? Most definitely not. This will be the hardest thing you do in life and business BUT nothing worth having comes easy, right?
The change will start with you IF you allow it too. IF you have the willingness to do the mental work required, you CAN rewire your mind for positive, empowering thinking, thinking that will inevitably rewrite your identity changing your behavior to take the action necessary to reach those desires in your heart.
So know that YOU ARE CAPABLE AND BE WILLING. Willing to do what it takes to change your circumstances and rewrite your life as YOU want to see it. We were NOT born doubting ourselves or our potential! We were CONDITIONED to.
(Check out this quick video where Tony Robbins talks about how to breakthrough negative thinking).
You see, without every single event that I could have complained about leading me up to that night, googling another way- I wouldn’t be where I am at today. And let me tell you, my today is full of so much more love, joy, and gratitude than I ever imagined possible for my life.
Google led me to my coach and mentor- a woman who came from so much pain like I did but chose to REWRITE her future instead of becoming a victim of it. She combined her fitness platform and story to reach others, give them hope and show them what was possible while building a life of complete financial freedom through IMPACT.
She showed me that I didn’t have to be a fitness expert to create a meaningful, fulfilling business.
It was what I wanted. So, I applied to be apart of her team and 6 weeks later I won a retreat to Florida with the top earners in the company and replaced and quit what I was making miserably PT in my previous career.
I went to bed every night SO excited to wake up every morning feeling like I was making a difference not only in my family’s life but also in so many other moms lives who felt the way I once did, too.
I got to be surrounded by other women who were just as ambitious as me and in doing so, SO many unexpected things happened OUTSIDE of the extra income. The light and positivity they shared completely transformed my mind. I went from negative Nancy to positive Patty (is that a saying? Lol). BUT seriously, the atmosphere I was gifted within this community was NOTHING like the critical environment I grew up in.
That energy radiated and rippled into my marriage. This business introduced me to how and why the mind is so powerful and how to do things daily to strengthen it to fight depression and negativity.
It gave me a sense of purpose outside of the daily monotonous, often unappreciated role as a mother. It brought me LIFE and gave me something to look forward to everyday.
This journey of NOT being a fitness expert but being given the tools to become one gave me a foundation to step on and USE to share my testimony in hopes to inspire others ANNNNNNND get paid for it!
Now unfortunately, when I decided I was going to scale my business to make MORE, things took a bad turn for me….and I believe whole-heartedly this is why MLM’s get a bad rep and leave such an awful taste in most people’s mouth.
It’s why I knew it was time for me to quit or find another way. I couldn’t confidently share this opportunity knowing what it was costing me and the top earners I was surrounded with, knowing what we were all feeling in the background.
With that being said….
If you’re looking to:
To spam your friends and family with those “hey girl” messages or…
Are looking to connect with everyone you know, whoever watches your stories or anyone that might comment on your posts with the only intention of converting them when they may probably not even be ready or want what you have to offer to begin with…
To spend your valuable AND limited time expanding your social media network and making friends with strangers ALL while taking care of your kids or working your current job..
JUST to leave you completely drained and with an empty tank to actually pour into those who matter most because you gave everything you had to strangers who-let’s be honest- probably won’t ever buy and are not fit for the opportunity you have anyways…
You’re in the wrong place.
Yes, you can make it happen the way the masses will teach you, I myself had success but at what cost? Your time? Your family? Your sanity?
It's why so many people don't make it in network marketing.
I mean tell me, how do you duplicate so much work for so little return???
Furthermore, how do you feel good about duplicating those tasks when spreading yourself so thin makes you a different person to the ones that matter most behind the scenes of the business???
THAT is what is being taught in almost EVERY network marketing opportunity including the trainings I had received and I HATED IT.
Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE and believe in what I do and how its allowed me to help and connect with so many women but I felt absolutely helpless when thinking about how to duplicate multiple six or seven figure success to another ambitious women like me, at the expense of her family.
I didn’t want anyone to EVER feel like I was when I was trying to do ALL the things I was told to in order to “succeed" in this industry while forgetting why I started in the first place and failing at what mattered the most to me- my family.
It was quit… or find another way.
Of course, I don't know how to quit so I found another way...🤪
I mean, if you really think about it…Do REAL businesses do any of those things?
Post with the intention to go and reach out to every single customer who “liked” one of their posts or watched a story with the intent to invite them to buy??
NO. So why do ALL Network Marketers preach this stuff when NO real business model utilize these strategies and less than 1% of the MLM population are seeing results from doing it!??
I knew if I wanted to create a successful business built around meaningful work, to make this possible for ANY other mom out there, I had to slow down to speed up...
I had to allow my mind to step OUT of what the masses were teaching me to allot the room for a new opportunity to take its place…
So I did…. And IT did…
Which leads us into...
Secret #3: Doing Less & Making More...
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